Most of our decisions are based on our knowledge, beliefs, and ways of thinking. Once established, we find it difficult – even in the face of new knowledge – to change our way of thinking. We dismiss the opinions of others that do not match our own.
However, when we recognize and accept that there is much more we don't know than what we do know – when we question and rethink old assumptions and ways of thinking – when we consider alternative ideas and perspectives – and part with those that no longer serve us well, we can ultimately make better choices and live better lives.
We can see disagreements as opportunities to learn rather than as threats to our cherished own beliefs. Instead of refuting other peoples' arguments, we can ask questions and signal that we are willing to consider differing opinions, igniting a mutually constructive debate.
The book is entertaining and easy to read. It weaves together research findings, personal anecdotes from the author, and vivid stories, such as that of Daryl Davis, a black musician who makes friends with racists and gets them to give up their hatred.
A recommendation for anyone who wants to be intellectually open, flexible, and willing to change their mind as new facts become available.
🎧 Suitable as an audiobook? Yes!
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